Dominatrix with a Disability

I am an exceptional and Sadistic Dominatrix.

It doesn’t matter whether I’m playing for fun with play partners, paid professional work in a real time scenario, or online sessions with clients – I’m good. I also happen to be disabled. Now, this doesn’t detract from My abilities, My Sadism, nor the way I conduct My sessions – whether they’re online or in person. However, from time to time it does seem to impact My clients.

So, let’s have a conversation. 

If you hold off on doing something because I publicly admit – whether through this medium, or My other online work, that I’m going through a bad spot, don’t. My health changes on any given day, and that’s perfectly fine. Sometimes I can beat someone up for two hours solid, but sometimes I can’t lift a cane. There is a very good chance all that will change within 24 hours, and I’ll be able to move again. I’m not contagious – and would never session if I had a cold, I am not going to injure myself from sessioning – though I will want a foot massage if I wear heels for two hours, and I’m not going to double up in pain during a session – that’s a privilege I allow you.

The only different between Myself and another Dominatrix is that I might need to reschedule, or postpone something until a later date. It doesn’t necessarily mean I’m incapable of sessioning that day, it just means that I would be comfier if the session happened when my pain is a 4 instead of a 7/8. Do note, I’ve never had to reschedule a session yet, and if I did I would ensure all parties were happy with the moved arrangements. I know my body, and I know when I can take sessions and when I can’t – it’s why I require 5 days for a session request.

My Relationship with Pain

Due to My health issues I know a lot about the body’s relationship with pain. I’ve studied medical texts extensively not only for fun, but to gain a deeper knowledge about pain, the body, and the mind.

If anything, I would argue that I have a perspective that not many have in understanding clients with long term health conditions. If you’re are a client that has a long term health condition, and you’re nervous about your needs not being catered to, let’s have a conversation.

Being kinky and disabled does not make you invisible. Go after your kink. Message Me, tell Me what you’re worried about, and I’ll allow you to take Me for coffee, and we can chat more. If you’re on a low income because of a disability then I do not mind you paying in instalments. If you don’t know what you like peruse My clip stores, and see what takes your fancy.

Ultimately, don’t think you need to wait to order a custom, request a session, or message Me. The reality of being a Dominatrix with a disability or chronic health condition – whichever you understand more, is that I’m not going to get better. I’m fine with that, and it shouldn’t impact your want for a session with me.

Let’s face it, even when I’m at my worst, I’m still 100% better than you.

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